Since we have been sharing our plans to plant a Newthing Network church in Kansas City, many of our friends ask about how our kids are handling the idea of moving. We have three children; Jake 16, Mitch 13 and Judiann 7. This week my son Mitch wrote this paper for school. It was interesting getting my 13 year old's perspective on moving and church planting:
I didn't know what to think. When my parents talk to me alone it is never good, but there is a first time for everything. I kept thinking about what I had done over the last few days that I might be getting punished for, but nothing really came to mind, so I guessed something good was about to happen.
As they walked toward me and told me to sit down, my heart began to race and my chest began to pound. This adrenaline blinded all my senses and all I could do was wait. As they began to speak I started to fiddle with my flip flops subconsciously tearing at the torn rubber on the side.
Then my father began to speak. He told me that God had been calling my parents to make some drastic changes in their life. And what my Dad said next would define my life and the life of my family. What he told me in that moment was not that my parents were getting a divorce, not that my family was going bankrupt, but that our family was going to move.
At first my heart didn't know what emotion to feel, anxiousness, heartache, despair and then something I can not even describe to this day. I was proud. I felt joy. I would be part of God's mission. I would get to serve Him by planting a church in Kansas City. But even before I could understand all these feelings, I began to cry. I thought about my friends, my school, my sports teams and my home. I sobbed for what seemed like days.
From this experience I realized that in the beginning things can seem negative, but you're always going to have to keep an open mind to be able to get through the rough part. With all that emotion coming to me I realized the next step in my life. I guess now all I can do is wait, watch and see what is in store for me.